Having a "parenting advice" meet at work. Here are my answers:

you have a very important meeting in the morning. your toddler wnt get ready for school. you are realising with each passing moment you are going to be late for the meeting ? how do you handle this ?

I think people don't realize that violence is always an option. Especially with a toddler, it's very easy to overpower them.

What are the strategies that you have to disconnect and focus on your family/personal life after you are done with work?

I personally drink a gallon of scotch per month. It's been efficient for me to disconnect from both work and family.

are you online on Teams while you are engaging with your kids ?

My first born is on Teams so it's very convenient. The 3rd insists on being on Zoom so we don't engage that much.

you are in a sev 2 bridge. your spouse is busy. you hear your baby crying ....

what do you do ?

Utilitarian school has it that the pain of one is less important than that of many. So sev 2s are a no brainer

When work setup is back to normal I will be working at the office at least 3/week. I am wondering if that will be impactful for our 12 mos old as she's used to having both parents around her every morning she wakes up and all day

It will be atrocious for your kid, and in fact a good payback for all the sleepless nights you had to endure. I suggest leveraging this opportunity to practice your psychological torture by leaving your home in the morning and telling them that it's because of them. While not that impactful at such a young age, this will become handy as they grow ; and therefore a muscle you need to practice.